This annoys me so much. If it’s reffering to relationships it’s fucking bullshit. Relationships that hurt aren’t good for you. They should be kept to books. If loving someone hurts or someone you love keeps hurting you then that relationship needs to STOP. Because loving someone without pain is POSSIBLE and it’s what we should all aspire to. F**k this shitty romantic hurting. That’s not love.
What the "actual fuck" is the point of treating all men and speaking of all men as though any of us is the same as the worst of us. Many men including myself identify as feminists and do the best we are able. (Though we make mistakes). You perpetuate hate and disguise it as progressivism.
If a child is nipped by a dog no one blames them for fearing other dogs.
If a woman is abused, raped, assaulted, beaten, humiliated, degraded by a man everyone blames her for being wary as if she has the innate ability to know which other men will abuse her, no different than a child not possibly knowing which dogs are mean.
Do not talk to me about feminism - a movement started by my sisters for women. Talk to your brothers who abuse, rape, assault, beat, humiliate, degrade and oppress us. That is the best you are able to do. Call out your brothers for their sexism and misogyny no matter how small. Any male “feminist” that attacks a woman for her feminism is nothing but a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Feminism is not about you. Feminism is not about looking after men’s feelings when men are the number one threat to a woman’s life.
I will never, ever preface my feminism with “some men”. It’s not “some men” that abuse, rape, assault, beat, humiliate, degrade and oppress women. It’s “some men” that don’t.
“Just because two people are capable of deeply hurting each other over and over again does not make them passionate, star-crossed lovers. It makes them two people who keep doing terrible things to each other. Someone’s ability to make you completely and utterly soul-crushingly miserable does not mean they are a soul mate with some deep insight into your psyche. They are just someone who is really good at making you unhappy.”—Andrea Greb (via katara)
The most popular song of the summer is about how consent is boring and women are just animals and they just need a good hard dicking from a real man to sort them out, with a music video featuring empowered men running around in suits while naked women are relegated to literally holding livestock and acting as sex objects and I just do not have the words to express how upset and angry that makes me
Robin Thicke Is An Asshole Douchenozzle Pisslord Fuckerman
I started having sex with adult men when I was 13 years old.
Neglected at home and ostracized at school, I found comfort in the sexual attentions of older men. Unlike boys my own age, who cruelly taunted me, older men were nice to me. Unlike my emotionally distant father, older men paid attention to me. They were grooming me, but to that chubby, attention-starved teenage girl, their attentions felt a lot like love.
And so I created Prodigy chat rooms with names like “13yo girl home alone” and spent hours chatting and having phone sex with the men who would find me there. I “dated” men in their 20s and 30s that I met at the movie theater, online or hanging around local college town with my other underage girlfriends. I pursued these relationships with with Lolita-like abandon. The terrifying thing is how few adult men ever said no.
I was not coerced. I consented to all these sexual encounters in the basest sense of the world. But I was making choices that I wasn’t emotionally equipped to make. Legally, that’s why statutory rape laws exist. Because like an intoxicated person, an underage person is not truly capable of informed consent.
And yet, on Monday, Stacey Rambold, a Senior High teacher convicted of raping 14-year-old Cherice Morales, who later committed suicide, was sentenced to spend just 30 days in jail. The judge justified his decision in part by saying he listened to recorded statements given by Morales before her death and believes that while she was a troubled youth, she was “as much in control of the situation” as Rambold.
The judge also said Morales was “older than her chronological age.”
I got pregnant because I didn't have birth control and I don't want the fetus. Can I have an abortion?
I gave birth to my child but since I wasn't expecting it, I can't afford daycare. Can I have help paying for it?
Well, why can't I have birth control?
Because. Sex isn't for recreation. It's for procreation.
But it can help regulate my period and benefit me in other ways.
For no reason other than for recreational sex, may I have birth control?
Do you have a penis?
YES, YES I DO!!
WELL HOWDY, VALID CITIZEN. You can buy condoms by the dozens. Here, here's a pack of special condom for "His Pleasure." Oooh, these come in different colours and flavours. Here, try these. They have ribs on them. And this one glows in the dark!! LOL OMG DICK LIGHTSABER!!
But seriously, you're a man. You can do whatever you want.
Shut up, you sinning, freeloading hussy.
I remember once I was really sad so I went to the store and bought a bunch of fruit and cut it up and arranged it and made a bunch of pretty fruit salads and not only did my family appreciate those and make me feel good about it when they got home but it helped calm me down so moral of the story when you’re feeling sad cut fruit not skin the end